This month is all about divine partnerships and exploring what experiencing intimacy means to you. There is now an awakening to the desire for more intimacy in your life. This is your soul demanding more. You are now conscious of what within yourself is blocking you from having the love you know you deserve. No matter if we just learned about divine unions or whether we have been aligned with this energy for years, you are being called forward this month to step into your power as a being of love. For some of us we are beyond ready and for the rest of us we are uncomfortable by the thought. It is either you are ready for this energy or you are going to get dragged through the dark toxic black holes of your soul. Personally, I’d rather just heal myself than get stung by Scorpio’s stinger. A lot of us have manifested our material dreams but realize it doesn't feel good without intimate deep relationships. If you are in a long term partnership you are getting on intimate levels with your partner in ways you never imagined or if you are single you are finally seeing how you can take control of your love life by enforcing intimacy as a boundary. Intimacy is something we share yet something that is deeply personal to only us, and since we get to control how we live in this energy, most of us tend to mess it up. Intimacy is associated with discretion, secrets, darkness, all the things we hide from even our self. As much as intimacy is everything we are afraid of, it is something we so deeply value and long for in relationships. This dance of yin and yang, this balance of what is mine and what is ours, is a life lesson so many hide from learning.
This energy can apply to friendships if you are longing for deeper connections with friends. Read my article about how to call forth your soul family here.
Scorpio energy is very protective and it is important to be protective of your energy with people by enforcing boundaries in your relationships. If you want to attract your soul mate then don’t entertain just anyone who wants to talk to you. If someone has been dragging you along but never committing put your foot down and leave them. If you want live in the present and attract a new love enforce a boundary on yourself to not bring the past into the present and catch yourself slipping on bad habits.
If you are wanting to align with your divine partner literally just declare it and speak it into existence by stating I AM READY FOR MY DIVINE UNION. Now you are totally kidding yourself if you think some romance novel love is going to come riding in on a shiney horse. Declaring yourself ready means you are declaring that you will choose to only live in unconditional love therefore transmuting any and all karmic debt, darkness and shadows that occurred in your lifetime. Scorpio season means EXPOSURE. You can not falsely live in this energy. You can’t pretend to be happy in your relationship, you can’t hide things from each other anymore, you can’t hide things from yourself anymore. People’s intuitions are high so if you are going to hide from yourself other people will know you are lying. Literally suppressed memories, trauma and feelings from your inner child are being brought out of the dark cave you let them hide in and are seeing sunlight for the first time. This is coming up to be transmuted from negative into positive. It is not coming to light for you to feel like a sad mess forever. We couldn’t handle this information or these parts of ourselves before but now we can embrace it and claim it.
Pro Tips :
As much as this month is about relationships, the healing work and the focus should be on yourself.
It is important now to have important conversations with partners in person and not on texting because you need to feel the truth of this person’s energy when you are dealing with them, they may not be saying what they truly feel.
It is better to claim something and own it, then be exposed for it not on your own terms.
Some Questions To Ask Yourself Are:
As much as intimacy is about sex, how can you be intimate without sex?
How comfortable do you feel when others try to be emotionally intimate with you?
Do you show intimacy through words or physically through actions? What is more comfortable for you?
Are you conscious of the intimate love you receive from non-romantic partners like family and friends?
How can you be intimate with just one person while sex is being thrown in your face all over the internet and media?
How can you be intimate with your partner sexually after you've been together so long sex is routine?
Do you feel accepted when you share intimate feelings with a partner?
Do you feel like your partner reciprocates intiamcy?
The 11/11 Portal
On November 11th is an energy portal that is open for divine unions. YOU ABSOLUTELY SHOULD MEDITATE, JOURNAL, RELEASE, SET INTENTIONS ETC. on this day. A divine union is exactly that, a partnership that helps you fulfill your life purpose here on earth. This is different than marriage, simply because people have been getting married for insecure and invalid reasons for centuries. Divine unions are a soul connection that has existed for eons. Your soul is very very familiar with this person because you are them and they are you. So when you go looking for this person, you look with in. When you transmute energy for this person, you are transmuting your own shadow. Attracting this person to you means living your life for you first.
On this 11/11 portal use it to balance your divine masculine and divine feminine energies. We all have both sides to us. A lot of us will begin healing our feminine energy, and step into our power in a feminine energy without ever working on our masculine energy, so to men we come off to intense. Men work on their masculine energy and don’t get in touch with their feminine energy so they begin to ignore their body, intuition and self care. It really just depends on your personality and this is very personal balancing meditation. When getting in touch with each side you will begin to see how each side works together and supports each other WITHIN YOURSELF. This is a reflection of your OUTER world, a reflection of your relationship. If you are coupled you partner needs to work well with the masculine and feminine parts of yourself.
Remember to be gentle and patient with yourself. Be gentle and patient with your inner child. Be gentle and patient with the people who hurt you because they have never actually received those feelings. Be gentle and patient with the parents who taught you what love was. Be gentle with who you were and be gentle when ripping off those band aids. Be gentle with where you are headed because stress just takes away the innocence of a new experience or a new love. Express gratitude for the painful parts of life you had to experience because that is when you truly got to be intimate with your beautifully deep multi dimensional self.
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