There is a trick to this. I learned the hard way a few times. Its funny how there is certain guys I cried about and certain guys I immediately hit the gym and then the night club after with middle fingers up. The trick is to not give a shit. Or to not let them know you give a shit. Its a pretty good trick, and definitely a better trick then how they tricked you, into thinking they were genuine sweetheart with your best interest at heart.
The trick is to not let them bug you. It maybe difficult but not showing signs of emotional weakness is what men are taught to do...so we, as women, should too.
Do not text them angry messages. Do not let them see you cry. Don't black out and send 16 unrespnsive texts in a row.
Do not let them know they have penetrated your head and made you into the psycho bitch we, as women, actually all are deep down inside.
Men want to use that against you. It gives them more validity to treat you like you are a crazy.
The trick is go out, party, surround yourself with friends, make out with their coworkers, get into parties they can't get into, dress hott, work out, give your number out. Do not give them the dignity to control your happiness after they have decided with their fuckboy antics to stay stagnant and in a negative karmic web. Do not take it upon yourselves to punish them. Karma does that with every hott selfie you post and every free drink you get at the bar wearing your tight mini skirt.
Knowing that karma is taking care of these fuckboys and punishing them ultimately until they themselves fix the vibrations they are emitting into the world, we as women CAN RELAX.
NOW THAT YOU ARE RELAXED... TAKE A SECOND.... ASK YOURSELF SOME QUESTIONS? MEDITATE GIRL. COMMAND YOUR POWER!
FOCUS ON YOUR OWN VIBRATIONS. WHAT DO YOU CRAVE?
Do you seek love? Romance? One night stands? Casual sex? A wedding by the time your 30?
Where do these vibrations come from and are they genuine? Is the timing right in your life for this type of attraction?
For example, do you want a wedding just to have a wedding or do you want a soul mate that it does;t matter how the wedding is because you are marrying your twin flame?
What do you genuinely want? Yes, we all want the soul mate connection but have you done enough work on yourself to be attracting the best possible person into your life? For example, if you want a buff, hott man who is into hiking and fitness, are you, yourself able to bench press? Do you hike or do you run vallet your car at Runyon Canyon? Because a man like that, is attracted to women like him. Law of attraction, plain and simple people.
The reality is, all of these fuckboys have entered your sphere to show you, as a woman and as a goddess how to value yourself. How do you measure your own self worth? Your self worth is not measured by the length it took for him to text you back. Your self worth is not measured by the amount of other girls he is talking with. Your self worth is not measured by how crazy your reaction is when he acts disgusting.
Your self worth is measured by the amount of power you see in yourself. Your self worth is measured by the size of your dreams (which do not include him) Your self worth is measured by the amount of time you spend on yourself mentally, physically and emotionally to make sure that YOU are in a position of feminine power at all times.
Now that you are motivated, what do you want to do for yourself? How do you want to blossom? Goddesses are not petty. They do not waste their time. Mother Earth comes in full force with hurricanes, tidal waves and winds that blow the roofs off houses when you least expect it. No matter how much a man prepares, he can not stop the force of your inner beauty. Nothing can touch your inner beauty.
Once you recognize your self worth, your inner beauty, and your ability to not give a shit, you can blossom, grow into the the most beautiful and unique flower in the garden who attracts all the best bees in the hive. It is up to you to choose who enters your sphere. It is up to you to recognize when to let go and when to draw a boundary because you know your self worth. These fuckboys did not bring you down. They did not harden your heart. They only helped you see that the love for yourself is the only love you need and when you love yourself you attract the love you deserve.
From one kinda heart broken bitch to another, command your power.
Go listen to Flawless by Beyonce. Do crunches. Count your money. Literally do anything BUT let him know you are sad. Don't give your power to him.